http://www.kansascity.com/2010/08/17/2157602/from-one-familys-tragedy-another.html
The picture says a thousand words. The story should be telling women how important breast milk is for children. I understand that many women, like the woman above, cannot breastfeed, but so many who can choose not to.
All the myths have be negated-
Breastfeeding doesn't make your breasts sag: http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/86982.php
Breastfeeding is not the same as formula: http://www.askdrsears.com/html/2/t021600.asp
There is no help for women:
Okay, that last one is true. It is hard to breastfeed with no support. I struggled the first week to get used to it, and it did hurt. After a week of trying and getting bloody nipples, things just clicked. It hurt for the first two weeks, and then nothing. It doesn't hurt now.
I am an exception to the rule though- I got help. I had a very supportive mother who walked me through getting a good latch, I went to a breastfeeding support group and met with the lactation consultant, I went to the La Leche League meetings. Seek help!!!!!!!!!
I won't get preachy, but I think my natural birth had a lot to do with our breastfeeding relationship. My baby was born fully alert, ready to take in the world and latched immediately. She began suckling instantly and we never struggled to get a good latch.
I agree with Rachel. Many moms do not breastfeed for very selfish reasons and it chaps my hide. I have struggled to keep my breastfeeding going and I think that having a c-section did play into my struggles. But, I have given up a lot to provide this for my son and I don't care, I wouldn't change it for the world. I also feel very connected and indebted to Rachel for the breast milk she has given my son, I look at him and I know because of her help he is a thriving and healthy boy. One of these days I'll know how to repay her.
ReplyDeleteI was able to share with both my sisters when they had struggles as well - I'm glad I had the extra to do it! Kimberly had issues with her daughter and cow milk. She had already stopped nursing and then discovered the allergy so I shared with her while they figured out what else would work.
ReplyDeleteBlows my mind when intelligent people choose not to even try and act like it isn't a big deal. It really makes you wonder what they read about it and where they got their information that they don't think it's that important.